In a certain village there lived a woman named Mara. In her youth she longed deeply for love, for she felt empty within, like a vessel with no water to fill it. She said in her heart, “If a man would but stay with me and cherish me, then I would be whole.” So she opened her door to the first traveler who spoke kind words and promised her tomorrow. She trusted him as her first love, believing he would build a house with her. But when she carried his child within her womb, he denied her and fled into the night, leaving her alone with the little one. Mara wept and said, “Surely I have learned. I will choose more wisely.” Yet after a season, another came—gentle in speech, bringing small gifts and coins for her journey. He seemed to care for her burdens. Again she believed, and again life quickened in her. But when she told him of the child, he vanished like mist before the sun. Still her heart cried out for belonging. A third man arrived, bolder than the others. He spoke of marriage, greeted her family, and swore oaths before them. Mara hoped once more. But the moment the truth of new life was spoken, excuses poured from his lips like water from a broken jar, until at last he barred her from his sight. Time passed, and Mara, weary yet still thirsty for love, met a fourth stranger—only two moons before. She thought, “Perhaps this time the story will change.” But behold, life stirred within her again. The man has not yet answered, and fear grips her soul, for the pattern repeats like a shadow that follows the same path. Mara never cast aside the children given to her; she carried each one, bore the weight, and called them her own. Yet the men departed, and the village whispered, “Close your gates, woman, lest more sorrow enter.” But Mara answered in her anguish, “It is not so simple. I seek only to be loved.”
The Lesson Drawn Thus says the reflection of wisdom: The human heart, made for eternal love, often wanders into fleeting shadows seeking what only God can give. As it is written, “Love comes not from the arms of many, but from the One who never leaves nor forsakes” (cf. Hebrews 13:5; Deuteronomy 31:6). The woman in the parable chased after the love of men, hoping each would fill the void, yet each pursuit brought deeper wounds and greater responsibility borne alone. Sexual union outside the covenant of marriage—though it promises closeness—often leads to abandonment, pain, and consequences that echo through generations, for “he who sins sexually sins against his own body” (1 Corinthians 6:18), and the body is meant to be a temple, not a field trampled by passing feet. Yet hear this grace: No one is cursed beyond redemption. The Lord does not delight in condemnation but in turning the heart. As He said to the woman caught in adultery, “Neither do I condemn you; go, and from now on sin no more” (John 8:11). Mara (and every daughter like her) is invited to turn from seeking love in broken cisterns that hold no water (Jeremiah 2:13) and to find it in the Living Water who says, “Whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again” (John 4:14). The true path is not merely “closing legs” in rule-keeping, but opening the heart to the perfect love of God first—through repentance, forgiveness, and trust in Christ who bore every shame on the cross. From there comes strength to choose differently, to guard the sacred gift of intimacy for the covenant of marriage, and to raise children in the security of divine love rather than human promises that fail. You are not defined by the number of times you fell, but by the One who lifts you up when you call upon Him. Your children are not a curse, but a trust; carry them to the Father who never abandons. And in Him alone will the longing be satisfied.
Many people risk their future for just a few minutes of sexual pleasure, forgetting the heavy consequences that follow. HIV, STDs, unwanted pregnancies, and even eternal separation from God are real dangers of casual sex. This message is a call to repentance, urging you to live a life of sexual purity and avoid the eternal regret that comes from momentary sin. Guard your future, honor God with your body, and choose righteousness over reckless pleasure.
Many people have asked me if it is right or wrong for Christians to have sex in other positions other than missionary. I prayed about it and the Lord gave me this message. He also revealed to me the three rules that guide marital sex.
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Here is the message from the Lord below:
“Everybody’s body is not the same. Every couple’s bodies are not the same too. The rule that guides Christian marital sex is holiness, agreement and comfort. Sex is holy. I have given sex to mankind for reproduction and for pleasure also. Sex must be had in a holy way. All those who abuse themselves shall be judged by the same God who blessed mankind with the gift of sex. All those who prostitute themselves are guilty of defiling the temple of God.
Those who are comfortable with themselves in positions they agreed on with their wives should feel free to express their love without guilt or self-condemnation. I have given sex to mankind for pleasure also.
Just as people’s bodies are different, so also they may not be comfortable in the same position. What I hate is sexual immorality such as prostitution, sodomy, oral sex, forcing oneself into your wife when she disagrees with you, abusing oneself or your wife/husband. These are things that are unholy which the children of the world do. Such must not be done by the children of the Kingdom of God. But when a husband and his wife play in a position other than missionary, I will not count it as sinful against them if they do it based on agreement and for mutual pleasure.
The marriage bed must be kept holy, and it must be devoid of all foreign objects (sex toys).”
This is a warning message the Holy Spirit gave me on the 8th July 2020. “Satan’s plan now is to introduce children to pornography as early as possible. This the devil has found as an effective means of distracting the sexuality of humanity. In doing this he blurs the difference between good and evil.”
Asexuality is gotten from the word ‘asexual’, and it refers to the lack of interest or desire in sex, biologically it is used to refer to having no sexual organs.
Generally, the term asexual is used to refer to persons who lack any form of sexual attraction to people, both of the opposite sex and of the same sex.
Asexuality is not mentioned anywhere in the bible, neither does it talk about the lack of sexual desire or interest towards people.
The question then is, is it wrong to not feel any form of sexual desire or attraction?
The bible tells us that when God looked at all that he had created, he saw that it was good, and we know that God created sex and the sexual hormones in our bodies, this means that God saw the importance of sex for man and woman, and that was why he made it.
The closer we can get to the bible talking about lack of interest in sex is apostle Paul’s message in 1 Corinthians 7 :1 when he encouraged that it is good for one to remain unmarried.
This is because it would enable one’s sole focus to be on God and carrying out the gospel of Christ all over the world without the constraint of family.
Although he [Paul] also made it clear in verses 2-6 of that same chapter that for persons who know that they would find it difficult to control their sexual urges.
They should go ahead and get married to satisfy their sexual desires in a godly way, this is because evangelical works would not be used as an excuse for fornication. thanks
From apostle Paul’s message, celibacy among Christians is welcomed, as long as self-control can be easily exercised.
We must know that celibacy is a chosen path, but it does not indicate lack of sexual desires, but psychological or emotional factors or even hormonal imbalance could cause asexuality, factors such as [ emotional trauma from sexual abuse, physical abuse, emotional bullying, body shaming, and so many others].
For this reason, it is advised that the first thing to do when one notices such thing is to pray and to see a professional therapist in order to be sure that whatever is happening is not as result of psychological, emotional or hormonal issues.
Cross dressing simply put, is wearing the apparels and garments that belongs to the opposite sex/gender.
Cross dressing in most ‘advanced’ nations of the world has become a norm in the society, but what does God and the bible say about this act, is it right or wrong for Christians to cross dress?
The bible in Deuteronomy 22:5 gives a clear understanding of the topic of cross dressing and transvestism [women dressing in men attires and vise versa].
From this passage, God instructs and command that a woman should not put on that which pertains to a man, and a man is not to put on that which pertains to a woman as well, because anyone who does this is an abomination unto God.
The message in this passage is not intended to forbid women from wearing pants of trousers, or to forbid men from wearing skirts/kilts [the Scottish traditional men].
It is solely focused on the fact that anyone who cross dresses, is trying to appear as something or someone else, that he or she isn’t, and this could be used as a means of deception.
The true definition of cross dressing from this passage, is changing one’s apparel and appearance to look like the opposite sex, and this is not acceptable to God because it discards the natural use of things, and takes on that which to God is unnatural [ Romans 1:24-27].
Apostle Paul in his first letter to the Corinthians in 1 Corinthians 11:3-15 tells the Corinthian church that the way and manner in which a woman adorns herself, and wears her hair is a reflection of God, likewise also a man.
Therefore, any woman who cuts or shaves her hair just because she wants to appear like a man, and a man who grows out his hair just because he wants to be seen like a woman is bringing shame to the body of Christ.
This doesn’t mean that any woman who shaves or cuts her hair, or any man who grows out his hair is a sinner, it is acceptable to keep one’s hair in whatever form or style that is most suitable to one.
It only becomes a sin when the motive and attitude of one’s heart for doing such thing is to appear as someone else, and like we know, that is deception, and deception in itself is a sin.
Christians should take note that different customs and traditions calls for different gender related clothing, for example it is customary that a traditional Scottish man wears a kilt[skirt].
Therefore, in such situations a man wearing a skirt is not crossdressing.No matter the custom and tradition of any society, Christians should only wear what is gender appropriate in that custom and make sure to dress decently, and above all bring glory to God.
This is a Christian site that teaches Godly sexuality. This is a mandate that God gave to Hosanna David, that he should proclaim the Truth about godly sexuality to mankind.
