by Admin Admin | Aug 5, 2026 | Lust, Masturbation, Messages from God, Sexual Purity, Sexuality
Sex toys—whether for men or women—are tools designed to stimulate lust, feed self-gratification, and pursue pleasure apart from God’s design for sexuality. Scripture does not leave this gray. Sexual purity is not optional; it is a command rooted in the holiness of God and the dignity He gives the human body.
The Biblical Standard
God created sex as a good gift exclusively for the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24; Hebrews 13:4). Outside that boundary, every form of sexual activity—including the use of devices that arouse and satisfy lust—is sexual immorality.
- 1 Corinthians 6:18-20: “Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.”
- Matthew 5:28: Looking with lustful intent is already adultery of the heart. Devices that deliberately cultivate and satisfy that lust compound the sin.
- 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5: “For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God.”
- Ephesians 5:3: “But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints.”
Sex toys train the heart and body to seek satisfaction in objects and self rather than in the self-giving love of marriage. They normalize lust as a private right, dull the conscience, and open the door to deeper bondage. Whether marketed as “harmless self-care,” “marital aid,” or “empowerment,” they remain instruments of impurity when used outside (or even inside) God’s narrow design.
True purity is not merely the absence of certain acts; it is the positive pursuit of holiness—guarding the eyes, the mind, the hands, and the heart so that the body remains a living sacrifice (Romans 12:1). For the unmarried this means complete abstinence. For the married it means exclusive, selfless intimacy with one’s spouse alone, free from fantasy, images, or devices that introduce third parties (even plastic ones) into the marriage bed.
Call to Freedom
If you have used these things, the gospel offers real cleansing. “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). Throw them away. Delete the accounts. Cut off the sources of temptation. Seek accountability. Fill the emptiness with Scripture, prayer, and the presence of Christ. The Holy Spirit is stronger than any habit.
Purity is possible because Jesus is better. He bought your body at the price of His blood. Glorify Him with it.
by Admin Admin | Jul 29, 2026 | Decency, Lust, Messages from God, Sexual Purity
For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor.”
— 1 Thessalonians 4:3–4
Beloved, sexual purity is not a suggestion from God—it is His clear will.
Your body is not your own. It is the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19–20). When you engage in sexual immorality—whether in thought, word, or deed—you are not merely “making a mistake.” You are bringing defilement into the very place God has chosen to dwell.
Jesus raised the standard higher than the world wants to hear: “Everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart” (Matthew 5:28). Purity begins long before the body acts. It begins in the eyes and in the mind.
God’s design is beautiful and narrow: one man, one woman, in the covenant of marriage (Hebrews 13:4). Everything outside that boundary is rebellion against the Designer.
So flee. Do not negotiate. Do not manage. Flee sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18). Guard your eyes. Guard your phone. Guard your heart. Ask the Holy Spirit daily to keep your temple clean, because the One who lives inside you is holy.
The world says purity is outdated.
Heaven still calls it beautiful.
May the Lord make you pure in body, soul, and spirit—until the day you see Him face to face.
Amen.
by Admin Admin | Jul 26, 2026 | Advice to Young Adults, Messages from God
Bible Text: “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Proverbs 4:23 (NIV)
In a world where relationships are often built on emotions, physical attraction, and temporary feelings, God’s Word reminds us that lasting relationships must have a stronger foundation. Before pursuing a healthy relationship with another person, we must first cultivate a healthy relationship with God.
Our relationship with God shapes every other relationship in our lives. When we know His love, we learn how to love others genuinely. When we understand His forgiveness, we become more willing to forgive. When we walk in His wisdom, we make healthier choices and avoid relationships that pull us away from His purpose.
Many people pray for the right partner but spend little time allowing God to prepare them to become the right partner. A Christ-centered relationship begins with two individuals who are committed to growing spiritually before growing romantically.
Building a relationship with God requires spending time in prayer, studying His Word, obeying His commands, and trusting Him in every season of life. As we grow closer to Him, He transforms our character, heals our emotional wounds, and teaches us patience, humility, self-control, and unconditional love. These qualities become the foundation of healthy relationships.
God also calls us to guard our hearts. This does not mean shutting people out or refusing to love others. Rather, it means being wise about who influences our lives, setting healthy boundaries, and ensuring that our decisions align with God’s will. Guarding your heart protects your spiritual growth and helps you avoid relationships that may lead you away from Christ.
A healthy relationship is built on mutual respect, honesty, trust, purity, and a shared commitment to honor God. It is not driven by selfish desires but by a sincere desire to glorify God together. Such relationships encourage spiritual growth, strengthen faith, and inspire both individuals to become more like Christ.
When God is at the center of a relationship, love becomes more than an emotion, it becomes a daily decision to serve, encourage, forgive, and remain faithful. Challenges will still arise, but a relationship founded on Christ has the strength to endure life’s storms.
At Biblical Sexual Purity, we encourage every believer to seek God first before seeking a relationship. The closer you draw to Christ, the more clearly you will recognize relationships that reflect His purpose for your life.
Remember, the strongest relationships are not built by two perfect people. They are built by two people who continually surrender their lives to God and choose to walk with Him every day.
Reflection Questions
Is your relationship with God influencing the way you relate to others?
Are your friendships and relationships drawing you closer to Christ or farther from Him?
What practical step can you take this week to strengthen your relationship with God?
by Hosanna David | Jun 21, 2025 | Messages from God, Sexual Purity, Sexuality
Many people have asked me if it is right or wrong for Christians to have sex in other positions other than missionary. I prayed about it and the Lord gave me this message. He also revealed to me the three rules that guide marital sex.
Kindly watch the video below:
Here is the message from the Lord below:
“Everybody’s body is not the same. Every couple’s bodies are not the same too. The rule that guides Christian marital sex is holiness, agreement and comfort. Sex is holy. I have given sex to mankind for reproduction and for pleasure also. Sex must be had in a holy way. All those who abuse themselves shall be judged by the same God who blessed mankind with the gift of sex. All those who prostitute themselves are guilty of defiling the temple of God.
Those who are comfortable with themselves in positions they agreed on with their wives should feel free to express their love without guilt or self-condemnation. I have given sex to mankind for pleasure also.
Just as people’s bodies are different, so also they may not be comfortable in the same position. What I hate is sexual immorality such as prostitution, sodomy, oral sex, forcing oneself into your wife when she disagrees with you, abusing oneself or your wife/husband. These are things that are unholy which the children of the world do. Such must not be done by the children of the Kingdom of God. But when a husband and his wife play in a position other than missionary, I will not count it as sinful against them if they do it based on agreement and for mutual pleasure.
The marriage bed must be kept holy, and it must be devoid of all foreign objects (sex toys).”
by Hosanna David | Jun 21, 2025 | Messages from God, Sexual Purity
Over the years, many people have asked me to seek the face of the Lord to know what God would say about oral sex in marriage, if it is a sin or not. I prayed about it, and this is the message the Holy Spirit gave to me.
This is the message God revealed to me about oral sex on the 3rd of June, 2025.
“I have warned the children of men across different generations, but most of them do not obey because of their hardness of heart. A man shall not put his mouth on the private part of a woman. So also, must a woman not put a man’s private part in her mouth. This is a perversion that is worthy of judgment.
There are those I call into a high level of consecration, they know that My Spirit has never given them the permission to do it. This is the same level I want all My children to operate. It is the place where the flesh has been totally overcome. When they kneel in prayer I answer quickly. They are My agents of righteousness across the world. There is no one who engages in oral sex that can attain this level. They are not even qualified to touch the curtain of the entrance of this level of consecration.
There are many of My children who are praying and striving to ascend in the spirit, but they cannot because they have not been able to conquer their desires for these levels of lust.
Tell them that they have not been called to pleasure but to holiness and righteousness in Christ. Pleasure was added to man to make him happy and be fulfilled. Oral sex is a perversion, it enslaves the mind. If there be a brother or sister among you who practiced it while in the world, he/she should be healed of it first before stepping into marriage. I do not permit it for my children.”
Kindly watch the video below to hear the explanations
by Hosanna David | Aug 31, 2024 | Messages from God, Pornography
The Lord gave Brother Hosanna David this warning message to mankind. It is about the grip Satan gains over people’s lives through their use of pornography. Here’s the message below:
Please watch the video below to get all the explanations
“In a vision I saw one of the top Nigerian musicians with his twin brother doing a fasting and prayer programme so that they will be delivered from the consequences of watching pornography in the past. The Holy Spirit said to me “When a single person watches pornography, the consequences are not as devastating like someone who watches the pornography with their spouse. There are marriages that have been completely taken over by evil spirits in course of the couples watching pornography.
Warn mankind that anyone who watches pornography opens up their soul for demonic access. Multiple pathways are created in the process hence the high spiritual fights those who watch pornography face.
When one person watches pornography demons gain limited access to the person, but when a couple watches pornography all hindrances are removed. When the two that make up one flesh agree to be accessed, a firm grip on their marriage and family is unavoidable. When one disagrees, the grip is less. When a man or a woman watches pornography, they accept the person in the video or picture they make love to. As they get aroused and pour out their emotions, their souls open up for access. This is because sex allows the opening up of a person for access so that they can become one with the person they make love to.
Every nakedness that is captured by a camera violates the honor and privacy of sex and mankind. This violation gives demons the right to infest such material to weaponize it against mankind. This is why Satan encourages people to expose their nakedness and also promote nakedness.”
