When Chioma stood beside her husband on the day they received their approval to relocate abroad, she felt hopeful and grateful. Her husband had sacrificed so much for their future. He worked tirelessly, prayed faithfully, and loved her sincerely. She knew she was blessed. But Chioma carried a secret weakness in her heart. Before her marriage, there had been someone else. A man she loved deeply. Though she had married her husband, she had never fully let go emotionally. She buried the memories, but she never surrendered them completely to God. One day, that man returned and reached out to her. At first, it was harmless conversation. Simple greetings. Checking up on each other. But slowly, the conversations became frequent. Her heart began to drift. She knew it was wrong, but she did not stop it. Instead of fleeing from temptation, she entertained it. The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 10:12, “Let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall.” Chioma believed she was strong enough to control herself. She was wrong. A week before traveling abroad with her husband, she made a decision that would change her life forever. She met her ex in secret. In that moment, she forgot her vows, forgot her husband’s love, and forgot God. After that day, she carried on as if nothing had happened. Soon, she and her husband relocated and began their new life abroad. But sin has a way of revealing itself. One day, her husband discovered the truth through her phone. He saw everything. The evidence was clear. The woman he trusted had betrayed him. He did not shout. He did not fight. He wept. He sat on the floor and cried like a broken man. In that moment, Chioma realized the depth of her mistake. She had not only sinned against her husband, she had sinned against God. The Bible says in Numbers 32:23, “Be sure your sin will find you out.” Her husband chose not to divorce her, but something had changed. The closeness they once shared disappeared. The trust was broken. Though they lived in the same house, their hearts were far apart. Days turned into months. Months turned into years. Chioma cried. She begged. She apologized. She prayed. She realized that one moment of disobedience can produce years of pain. She remembered the Word of God in Galatians 6:7, “Whatever a man sows, that he will also reap.” In her tears, she returned to God. She asked for forgiveness, not only to restore her marriage, but to restore her soul. She learned that true repentance is not just saying “I’m sorry,” but turning away from sin completely. She also learned that while God forgives, the consequences of our choices can take time to heal. Moral Lessons: Guard your heart at all times. Not every door from your past should be reopened. Marriage is a sacred covenant before God. Protect it with wisdom and discipline. Temptation often appears harmless at first, but its end brings sorrow. Sin may be hidden for a time, but the truth will always come to light. God is merciful and forgives those who truly repent, but wisdom is to avoid sin in the first place. The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 14:12, “There is a way that seems right to a person, but its end is the way of death.” Chioma’s story became a lesson she would never forget. She learned that no moment of pleasure is worth a lifetime of regret. And she learned that the safest place to live is in obedience to God. To every single and married woman reading this: guard your heart, honor God, and protect your future.
Many people believe using a condom makes sex completely safe. The truth is, it only reduces risk—it does not remove it. Some infections spread through skin contact and areas not fully covered. As Christians, we are called to walk in truth and wisdom, not assumptions. This article highlights why protection is never 100%. 5 diseases you can get from sëx even though you use condöms
Listen, I know some of you think once you use a condöm, you are 100% safe. That is not completely true. Condöms reduce rïsk a lot, yes, but they don’t block everything. Some infections spread through skin contact or areas the condöm doesn’t cover.
Let me break it down for you.
✍️HPV, Human Papillomavirus. You can still get HPV even with a condöm. Why? Because it spreads through skin-to-skin contact. Any exposed area can pass it. Some types cause genïtal warts, and some can lead to cancer. That is why HPV is very common.
✍️Herpes. Herpes doesn’t need body fluids to spread. If the infected skin or sores are outside the condöm area, transmission can still happen. And don’t forget, you can catch herpes even when the person has no visible sores.
Syphilis. Syphilis spreads through contact with sores. Those sores can be on places condöms don’t fully cover like mouth, genïtals, anǔs. So yes, condöms reduce the rïsk, but they don’t completely eliminate it.
✍️Pubic lice also known as crabs. Let me be clear to you, condöms don’t protect you from this one at all. Pubic lice spread through close body contact. Once you are that close, the condöm doesn’t matter my sister .
✍️Molluscum contagiosum. This one causes small bumps on the skin and spreads through direct skin contact during sëx. Condöm or not, if there is skin contact, it can spread.
Condoms reduce risk, but they do not fully protect. Sex always carries consequences, which is why God designed it for faithful marriage. Wisdom includes regular testing and honest choices, but holiness remains the safest path. Choose knowledge, choose responsibility, and choose God’s design. Share if this is helpful.
He loved her deeply yet he chose not to touch her.
And no, he was not weak.
His name was David.
He was young, smart, and financially stable for his age. But in his world, self-control was mocked. People believed love was proven by how far you could go, not by how much you could restrain yourself.
David carried a quiet promise a vow he never announced. A decision he made when no one was watching or clapping.
Before meeting her, some women doubted him because he refused sex before marriage.
One said, “I can’t marry a man if I don’t know how he performs.”
Another mocked him, “Are you sure you’re not gay?”
Then he met Zara.
She was different. Her beauty was gentle, not loud. She spoke thoughtfully and carried her dreams carefully. Their love didn’t start with drama it started with conversations, long walks, and prayers said apart, yet somehow connected.
Zara noticed something unusual about David.
He never pushed boundaries.
Never tested her limits.
Never made her feel like her body was proof of love.
One evening she asked,
“Don’t you struggle? Don’t you feel tempted?”
David smiled — honestly.
“I do. But I respect you enough to wait.”
That moment changed everything.
Instead of pressure, they chose patience.
Instead of intimacy, they built trust.
Instead of rushing, they grew in values.
Temptation came it always does.
But each time, David chose self-control not because he lacked desire, but because he had direction.
Zara learned something powerful:
Some men don’t stay because you give in.
Some men stay because they respect you.
When they finally stood at the altar, their hands shook not from experience, but from anticipation. Their love had not been used up. It was preserved.
And when the right time came, it felt peaceful.
Not rushed.
Not guilty.
Not empty.
Just right.
Purity is not weakness.
Discipline is beautiful.
And a man who waits is not lacking desire he is mastering it.
It’s hard to believe — but the two photos above are of the same woman. One shows her radiant, glowing, and confident. The other shows the toll pregnancy can take on a woman’s body.
This transformation is not just physical; it’s emotional, mental, and spiritual. Pregnancy is a beautiful blessing, but it comes with great responsibility — one that God designed to be shared within marriage, not outside of it.
Sadly, many young ladies fall into the trap of sexual sin, believing love and emotions are enough. But when pregnancy comes, and the man walks away, the reality becomes painful. This is why sexual purity before marriage is not just a moral choice — it’s a protection.
The Price of Premarital Pregnancy
Pregnancy changes a woman’s body in many ways — her skin, her hormones, her emotions, and her overall appearance. During this time, she needs love, support, and commitment. But when pregnancy happens outside marriage, the woman often faces rejection, shame, and loneliness.
Imagine giving your heart and body to someone who isn’t ready to take responsibility. Imagine carrying a child while the father walks away, leaving you to face judgment and pain alone.
The Bible warns in 1 Corinthians 6:18 (KJV):
“Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.”
God’s design for sex and pregnancy is not to restrict us, but to protect us — from heartbreak, regret, and the consequences of sin.
Abortion Is Not an Option
Some young women, out of fear or shame, turn to abortion — believing it’s an easy way out. But abortion is not a solution; it’s a sin against God and an attack on innocent life.
The Bible says in Exodus 20:13,
“Thou shalt not kill.”
Every unborn child is a gift from God. Ending that life not only offends God but can also cause emotional trauma, health complications, infertility, and even death.
No matter how hopeless the situation looks, abortion only adds to the pain. The right path is repentance, forgiveness, and faith in God’s mercy. He can restore your life and turn your story into a testimony.
The Beauty of Waiting
Sex is sacred. It’s not a casual act but a covenant between husband and wife. When you wait until marriage, you honor God and protect yourself emotionally, physically, and spiritually.
When you become pregnant as a wife, your husband will be there — to love, support, and stand by you through every change. He will see your stretch marks and swollen face as a sign of sacrifice, not shame. That is what true love looks like.
Waiting until marriage doesn’t make you old-fashioned — it makes you wise and godly. God blesses those who choose purity, because purity is power.
God’s Word on Purity
Let’s remember what the Bible says about sexual purity:
1 Thessalonians 4:3 (KJV):“For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication.”
Hebrews 13:4 (KJV):“Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.”
1 Corinthians 6:19–20 (KJV):“Know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost… ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.”
These verses remind us that purity is not just a personal preference — it’s a spiritual calling.
A Message to Every Young Woman
Dear sister, your beauty is not just in your face — it’s in your obedience to God. Your worth is not defined by how attractive you look, but by your faith, purity, and discipline.
Don’t let peer pressure, emotions, or social media push you into sin. The world may celebrate immorality, but God celebrates holiness.
Wait for the man God has prepared for you — one who will honor your purity, respect your values, and love you even when your beauty changes. Remember, the same pregnancy that exposes sin can also glorify God when it happens in marriage.
Conclusion
Pregnancy is a blessing, not a curse — but it must come at the right time and with the right person under God’s covenant of marriage. Don’t trade your future for temporary pleasure. Don’t let sin rob you of your peace, your dignity, or your destiny.
Many people risk their future for just a few minutes of sexual pleasure, forgetting the heavy consequences that follow. HIV, STDs, unwanted pregnancies, and even eternal separation from God are real dangers of casual sex. This message is a call to repentance, urging you to live a life of sexual purity and avoid the eternal regret that comes from momentary sin. Guard your future, honor God with your body, and choose righteousness over reckless pleasure.
Many people have asked me if it is right or wrong for Christians to have sex in other positions other than missionary. I prayed about it and the Lord gave me this message. He also revealed to me the three rules that guide marital sex.
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Here is the message from the Lord below:
“Everybody’s body is not the same. Every couple’s bodies are not the same too. The rule that guides Christian marital sex is holiness, agreement and comfort. Sex is holy. I have given sex to mankind for reproduction and for pleasure also. Sex must be had in a holy way. All those who abuse themselves shall be judged by the same God who blessed mankind with the gift of sex. All those who prostitute themselves are guilty of defiling the temple of God.
Those who are comfortable with themselves in positions they agreed on with their wives should feel free to express their love without guilt or self-condemnation. I have given sex to mankind for pleasure also.
Just as people’s bodies are different, so also they may not be comfortable in the same position. What I hate is sexual immorality such as prostitution, sodomy, oral sex, forcing oneself into your wife when she disagrees with you, abusing oneself or your wife/husband. These are things that are unholy which the children of the world do. Such must not be done by the children of the Kingdom of God. But when a husband and his wife play in a position other than missionary, I will not count it as sinful against them if they do it based on agreement and for mutual pleasure.
The marriage bed must be kept holy, and it must be devoid of all foreign objects (sex toys).”
This is a Christian site that teaches Godly sexuality. This is a mandate that God gave to Hosanna David, that he should proclaim the Truth about godly sexuality to mankind.
